Healing & Wholeness

You can love someone deeply and still not feel safe with them. You can care about them, miss them, want the relationship to work, and still find yourself constantly anxious, unheard, dismissed, or unsure of where you stand. A healthy relationship requires more than a feeling. It needs respect, consistency, emotional safety, honest communication, accountability,

Meet Diana, a stentorian young woman in her late 20s, who has recently ended a seven-year relationship with Emmanuel. From the outside, their relationship seemed perfect ~ you know, Instagram-worthy vacations, shared dinners, and the kind of love everyone envied. But behind the scenes, the relationship had quietly broken out. What began as a storybook

Reverend Mike had told me to forgive him, but I didn’t. It hurt too much to forgive him. Why should I? Stephen had shattered my heart. He played with my emotions, took my time, my energy, and all I had to offer. I loved him deeply, but I sacrificed everything only to be left in

I woke up one morning, and I couldn’t find Kemi. The most exciting thing about waking up each day was knowing that I would wake up in the arms of the one I loved. But that morning, he was nowhere near me. I had met Kemi in a life band I joined at camp. He

The last week of December 2022 and the first week of January 2023 were tough for me. I saw the other side of depression I have never experienced before. I never saw it coming. I shouted at everyone at home, cried to sleep, cried when I woke up, stared blankly into thin air, and my

“For there is hope of a tree, if it be cut down, that it will sprout again, and that the tender branch thereof will not cease. Though its root may grow old in the earth, And its stump may die in the ground, _Yet at the scent of water_ it will bud And bring forth

After all the cartoons, comedy, and Korean movies I watched, I decided to switch over to an action movie titled ‘Corrective measures. In this movie, people that possessed different powers were locked in a prison. Amongst all prisoners, I took interest in a prisoner called Diego whose power was empathy.  I found it funny that

The screen of my phone got broken towards the end of last year. I decided to manage things like that since prices skyrocketed. I kept using the phone like that until the phone reminded me this month that it needs to get fixed. Its screen began to blink and Apps began to shuffle by themselves.

THIS IS A STORY OF A LADY. In her house were seven jars, one of which she stopped opening.  She despised this jar. Aside from its hideous look, on several occasions, she had to go down on her knees during the process of opening it. She would also get bruises on her fingers due to

I have never seen such a beautiful crippler like fear. The way it captures its victim and keep them at a spot without having to use physical chains is something I still puzzle at. However, I have come to realise that fear is only powerful because we give it our power. It is nothing. I