I think it’s selfishness or even sheer wickedness marrying someone you don’t know their worth or value just because you want to get married or that time isn’t on your side.
I am a writer. I write about anything and everything that is placed in my spirit by Spirit of God. Journally is a great therapy for me, and the library is of my happiest place.
So, short story…
I handed over a copy of my book to someone, and he said, and I quote, “When will I find the time to read this?” I didn’t have a problem with the statement as we all have things that are important to us according to our scale of preference. However, his next line of action was what amused me. He brought out N500 and handed it over to me.
Within a twinkle of an eye, I saw my sleepless nights, my prayers, my walk with God, and the deliverance in the book all summed up into N500. Lmao.😂
Well, the bottom line is rather than pick an offence. I understood why he acted that way. 1. He didn’t know the value. 2. It wasn’t he kind of thing. I’m sure if I brought something of his preference, he would understand the value of it.
Please, stop trying to stress people. Don’t marry a career woman/man and then try to conform them into business people. If you are a business person, marry a business person. If you are a career person, marry a career person. Except you both can find interest in each other field or reach a compromise, please ‘dey your dey.’
If you don’t know their worth, let them be. Allow them to meet who would value them for who they are.Â
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